S henever I assumed that the participants of the forums is equated to fans of star trek, geeks unable to interact with people who think differently or simply people out of a screen.
This clear before I returned one of those characters ... I joined the forum for fanatics of the breast, the Taliban's co-sleeping ... etc etc etc ... a forum attachment parenting, parenting with respect first and foremost to children and consciousness towards natural processes that society has come to robotize; pregnancies free of taboos and lies births respected and full of information and love long lactations, painless and informed. I learned words like co-sleeping (sleeping in the same bed as your children), and I realized that having followed my natural instincts (pre-forum) was the best, let my sins by doing what I wanted, I realized that no was necessary to stop mourn a baby to make it stronger or more prepared for life and people who will ask that you do not have the same information as me.
I came to a world of information and evidence, of realities that tips and dicharachos kill, myths and old woman gossip; "horchata drink water so you have plenty of milk, that and beer," the lungs of babies are bigger if you let them mourn, "not to upload or hug I'll get used to you'll always be there "... etc etc.
The forum met, doulas, midwives, nurses, artists, women and wonderful parents, I met two to three freaks that they got just to cause trouble or say that a spanking never hurt anyone, does not hurt to stop mourn and that children are mounstritos handlers ... people who were beaten for three seconds, they were shown scientific evidence, scientific studies, etc, nothing seemed sufficient guilt I bear for years, if I did so as much as I prove that I did wrong I'm not going to accept that I am not an abuser ...
In the nearly two years to participate in the forum I've ever been friends with a common cause, to raise our children with love and respect first. With bottle? some with cesarean? other, with separate rooms? many ... but all without ever allow unnecessary tear ... An awareness that children are human beings who are neither clogs nor monsters, which are many times more intelligent and deserve a happy childhood because life is very difficult and at least it is our responsibility to give them that, no better preparation for life that have grown between love, teach them to love and be loved, to respect and to love themselves, free from violence.
In loving discipline of clear boundaries, communication and trust above all.
This newfound world I found my vocation, I found answers to nosy and found friends and sisters.
sad thing came weeks ago when administrators of the forum took uncompromising measures to save their own business online, are forbidden to speak ill of the administration, treatment of any Forero as never treat their children, deleting posts, suspending people and never giving explanations ... a Although I love most involved forera not stand there and never will be unfair and to take measures impair freedom of the people on the pretext of maintaining order. I suspended my account when entering a facebook group that a friend had opened forera because he does not want to delete your messages or shoot it down, I went to accept more out of curiosity than anything else, and I read his story did not know, I just thought she asked and the group continue to support my friend over any forum because it is a human being I, the administration's response was to suspend my account, for those not participating in forums will know that this means could not post or edit my posts if you do not just read. Pissed by the injustice done to me I opened another account to tell the other forera what I was doing THE ADMINISTRATION, at least wanted to explain that if you want to be in that particular forum must first and foremost not a staunch defender of attachment parenting if not a first that ACPET lamehuevos everything and does not complain or talk about the injustices for fear of being deleted or missing ... two minutes into the post and there was even more angry ... I opened another account and put two or three posts to read ... I could not help management and closed the forum ... in an hour I lost the place I had been so happy and friendly that cowards, for lamenhuevos or ignorance would not or could believe ....
I found some that I was charged with the administration and thus learned that he had entered the facebook group in question ... in my contacts had snitches ...
Until today, two or three weeks later I still do not understand what happened to this forum, as being a place that serves as support for many moms, dads and sons, became a place where one can be silenced by raising his voice ...
orphan at times I feel sad for not being able to say goodbye, so I write here for anyone who wants to understand and believe me, for those interested and especially for me that if one who made fun of geeks forums strange night now reading and writing experiences of motherhood in a place full of skilled people and wonderful ....
It hurts and it baffles me because I never imagined not being there ... but I hate injustice, disgust me forced silence and I do not think that my stay at a forum seems less and less to Besame Mucho by Carlos Gonzalez and closer to Peter and the Captain of Benedetti.
short, love and miss the forera .... hate and disgust me dictatorships ... the opposite of parenting with love and respect ....
And I love that this is my blog and no one can run to write here by saying that it sucks blogger, blogger or their creators ...
This clear before I returned one of those characters ... I joined the forum for fanatics of the breast, the Taliban's co-sleeping ... etc etc etc ... a forum attachment parenting, parenting with respect first and foremost to children and consciousness towards natural processes that society has come to robotize; pregnancies free of taboos and lies births respected and full of information and love long lactations, painless and informed. I learned words like co-sleeping (sleeping in the same bed as your children), and I realized that having followed my natural instincts (pre-forum) was the best, let my sins by doing what I wanted, I realized that no was necessary to stop mourn a baby to make it stronger or more prepared for life and people who will ask that you do not have the same information as me.
I came to a world of information and evidence, of realities that tips and dicharachos kill, myths and old woman gossip; "horchata drink water so you have plenty of milk, that and beer," the lungs of babies are bigger if you let them mourn, "not to upload or hug I'll get used to you'll always be there "... etc etc.
The forum met, doulas, midwives, nurses, artists, women and wonderful parents, I met two to three freaks that they got just to cause trouble or say that a spanking never hurt anyone, does not hurt to stop mourn and that children are mounstritos handlers ... people who were beaten for three seconds, they were shown scientific evidence, scientific studies, etc, nothing seemed sufficient guilt I bear for years, if I did so as much as I prove that I did wrong I'm not going to accept that I am not an abuser ...
In the nearly two years to participate in the forum I've ever been friends with a common cause, to raise our children with love and respect first. With bottle? some with cesarean? other, with separate rooms? many ... but all without ever allow unnecessary tear ... An awareness that children are human beings who are neither clogs nor monsters, which are many times more intelligent and deserve a happy childhood because life is very difficult and at least it is our responsibility to give them that, no better preparation for life that have grown between love, teach them to love and be loved, to respect and to love themselves, free from violence.
In loving discipline of clear boundaries, communication and trust above all.
This newfound world I found my vocation, I found answers to nosy and found friends and sisters.
sad thing came weeks ago when administrators of the forum took uncompromising measures to save their own business online, are forbidden to speak ill of the administration, treatment of any Forero as never treat their children, deleting posts, suspending people and never giving explanations ... a Although I love most involved forera not stand there and never will be unfair and to take measures impair freedom of the people on the pretext of maintaining order. I suspended my account when entering a facebook group that a friend had opened forera because he does not want to delete your messages or shoot it down, I went to accept more out of curiosity than anything else, and I read his story did not know, I just thought she asked and the group continue to support my friend over any forum because it is a human being I, the administration's response was to suspend my account, for those not participating in forums will know that this means could not post or edit my posts if you do not just read. Pissed by the injustice done to me I opened another account to tell the other forera what I was doing THE ADMINISTRATION, at least wanted to explain that if you want to be in that particular forum must first and foremost not a staunch defender of attachment parenting if not a first that ACPET lamehuevos everything and does not complain or talk about the injustices for fear of being deleted or missing ... two minutes into the post and there was even more angry ... I opened another account and put two or three posts to read ... I could not help management and closed the forum ... in an hour I lost the place I had been so happy and friendly that cowards, for lamenhuevos or ignorance would not or could believe ....
I found some that I was charged with the administration and thus learned that he had entered the facebook group in question ... in my contacts had snitches ...
Until today, two or three weeks later I still do not understand what happened to this forum, as being a place that serves as support for many moms, dads and sons, became a place where one can be silenced by raising his voice ...
orphan at times I feel sad for not being able to say goodbye, so I write here for anyone who wants to understand and believe me, for those interested and especially for me that if one who made fun of geeks forums strange night now reading and writing experiences of motherhood in a place full of skilled people and wonderful ....
It hurts and it baffles me because I never imagined not being there ... but I hate injustice, disgust me forced silence and I do not think that my stay at a forum seems less and less to Besame Mucho by Carlos Gonzalez and closer to Peter and the Captain of Benedetti.
short, love and miss the forera .... hate and disgust me dictatorships ... the opposite of parenting with love and respect ....
And I love that this is my blog and no one can run to write here by saying that it sucks blogger, blogger or their creators ...
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