was once a country where full-fledged women stopped being about in week 2 of their first pregnancy. And never again be first class citizens. From this moment all kinds of accusations happen to him, curiously by gynecologists and midwives that attended the consultations called for pregnancy health. They were treated roughly and uneducated, scolding him for eating too much or too little, too much exercise or do not save enough rest, burdened with apocalyptic predictions of placentas too low, insufficient or excessive liquid, children who became obese at a frantic pace or not at all fattening, and everything was always the fault of the mother. So mothers, anxious that their children were safe, swallowed with all these rules, personal attacks, and did not claim a gynecologist pointed the uterine height, weight or tension without ever lifting his eyes and less sacred backside goodbye with a chair "to see if the next visit not so fattening."
But the worst was that those were not isolated cases, was normal and society perceived it as correct. All this had a reason, and is that just like children and come completely uncritical in late pregnancy, accepting without question any medical provision, although it was clearly against your health and your baby.
For labor and were completely won to the cause, convinced that the induction on Monday morning (although it removed several weeks' gestation and then his son would join in neonatology to fill the days until its development) was the most convenient for them (and the hospital), that the pain caused by artificial oxytocin were the deserved punishment for failing to dilate (because it was not yet time for the birth of her son) that they necessarily had to climb up a matron of 100 kilos, for they knew not to push (and how could they?, if they were lying face up, deprived of the force of gravity) and the episiotomy was essential to leave your child (in the very short time established hospital protocol, not the delivery room is occupied for too long and attended less deliveries per month).
relatively few years ago ordered a caramelito to distract the female and by the way, earn their trust. This is called epidural innocently, and had a double advantage, because the women themselves were the best advertisement, extolling its virtues and without publicizing alleged cons (as all subject groups when given a little attention) and also allowed to perform all the usual practices with impunity, because the mother should not feel anything.
And felt nothing, they could break the bag without asking (for collecting the liquid when the turns come better), provide artificial oxytocin serum was telling them to prohibit movement of the table (so I would not to go a midwife to relocate the records), to isolate the passenger (so that there would witness their iatrogenic), handling most intimate areas of her body abruptly (because the team was in a hurry to finish), hold your child away from them (because they knew not catch properly.) Come on, almost anything is allowed. For all this hurt (especially a posteriori) and caused many physical and psychological problems (the famous postpartum depression, which was also the woman's fault, not the neglect of obstetricians and midwives, of course).
And yes, indeed, this country is Spain. Every day, more than 1300 new cases of violence against women, particularly against those found delivery.
long been known that the best way to control a group of people is to break him in those moments that are most defenseless.
Each time you tell a puerperal woman "but what are you complaining?, If you have a beautiful child" or "daughter, what I thought was to have children?" Or "Do not cry for the points in your belly (or your perineum), which are given to all "we are perpetuating the abuse, we normalize a situation of compliance and eliminating any possibility of objection.
Think about it when we get on hands to his head at the cases of genital cutting as far away. Perhaps we are closer than we think.
THANKS Eowyn - Mami Natural Parenting forum.
Originally this referred to Spain or Argentina could be put, also Mexico Tatty ...
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