reading new mom's blog and his latest post where he talks about the differences between cesarean delivery and insipiré me for this post where you comment on how or who or who is offended I can really put everything what I think, clearly based on what I read, what I have said gines and midwives and in MY experience.
as some know my first daughter was born parto vaginal, a pesar de la episiotomía o del dolor nada se compara con la cesárea, la cual fue mucho más dolorosa, mucho más difícil de recuperar y claro en la que sentí el peor miedo.
muchas conocidas prefieren cesárea porque dicen que no duele....me parece una decisión basada en la ignorancia y el egoísmo, uff la ignorancia es enoorme, vamos a hacer ricos a los gines porque nos han convencido que parir es algo que nadie puede resistir....si no son chilaquiles me dijeron por lo menos 4 de estos doctores cuando me adentré en la búsqueda del parto natural y al parecer útopico de esta época.
porqué las llamo egoístas? pues porque si decidimos tener hijos tenemos que hacer lo que sea mejor for them, a vaginal delivery and less manipulated possible is best.
clear that C-sections and episiotomies, and forceps, and so are made to save the bbs or women in an emergency, but the key word here is that, EMERGENCY.
say do not judge me ... but I can not do so when they schedule C-sections because they want to be in a particular zodiac sign (that stupid), or because they want to be born more beautiful ... so aa not if it is not selfish ( LEAs with sarcasm), or because they want their sex life is affected: S
first sexual life after childbirth is obviously different but no worse ... if not practiced only by routine episiotomies then still would be easier, but sex after a Caesarean section is much more slow and cumbersome in many cases ...
remember when I was entering the operating room on my C-section I told mr. beards, Oooh I do not understand that because women live without fear, I will open the belly I'm terrified, how they make you to be so brave? he replied saying that women who are not afraid is that they have little awareness of their bodies, how right, how to schedule surgery without a hint of fear? well of course have no real connection with their bodies, have no idea what will happen and of course prefer a caesarean because the farther away it is numb more, not have to face themselves and pain.
As Laura says Gutman, one thing is pain and suffering is quite another, I felt pain in my C-section, and I suffered with my birth I felt pain but never suffered ...
is time to question the result of our decisions, it is time to reconnect with ourselves with our bodies, if we are attacked with labor struggles respected pro is because deep down we know that fear and selfishness we are winning ...
as some know my first daughter was born parto vaginal, a pesar de la episiotomía o del dolor nada se compara con la cesárea, la cual fue mucho más dolorosa, mucho más difícil de recuperar y claro en la que sentí el peor miedo.
muchas conocidas prefieren cesárea porque dicen que no duele....me parece una decisión basada en la ignorancia y el egoísmo, uff la ignorancia es enoorme, vamos a hacer ricos a los gines porque nos han convencido que parir es algo que nadie puede resistir....si no son chilaquiles me dijeron por lo menos 4 de estos doctores cuando me adentré en la búsqueda del parto natural y al parecer útopico de esta época.
porqué las llamo egoístas? pues porque si decidimos tener hijos tenemos que hacer lo que sea mejor for them, a vaginal delivery and less manipulated possible is best.
clear that C-sections and episiotomies, and forceps, and so are made to save the bbs or women in an emergency, but the key word here is that, EMERGENCY.
say do not judge me ... but I can not do so when they schedule C-sections because they want to be in a particular zodiac sign (that stupid), or because they want to be born more beautiful ... so aa not if it is not selfish ( LEAs with sarcasm), or because they want their sex life is affected: S
first sexual life after childbirth is obviously different but no worse ... if not practiced only by routine episiotomies then still would be easier, but sex after a Caesarean section is much more slow and cumbersome in many cases ...
remember when I was entering the operating room on my C-section I told mr. beards, Oooh I do not understand that because women live without fear, I will open the belly I'm terrified, how they make you to be so brave? he replied saying that women who are not afraid is that they have little awareness of their bodies, how right, how to schedule surgery without a hint of fear? well of course have no real connection with their bodies, have no idea what will happen and of course prefer a caesarean because the farther away it is numb more, not have to face themselves and pain.
As Laura says Gutman, one thing is pain and suffering is quite another, I felt pain in my C-section, and I suffered with my birth I felt pain but never suffered ...
is time to question the result of our decisions, it is time to reconnect with ourselves with our bodies, if we are attacked with labor struggles respected pro is because deep down we know that fear and selfishness we are winning ...
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