This time I will not be politically correct, do not give facts and statistics, I will cause controversy and yes, completely and totally write subjectively.
About sexual orientation and its origins has written extensively (here my text about it), about whether it is normal or not, too, about whether natural or a disease, much more. Their legal status has been part of newspapers and news for the longest time, and a lot of people take their position with a radical who falls into the ridiculous, as if the quality of each person is measured according to their intensity to argue its position . Discussion focuses on personal fears and prejudices, our own experiences in phobias is never objective, always carries emotional baggage. Whether it's because I have deep fear of being gay, either because they told me that is bad and do not question, either because I'm gay and I have become heterophobic, there will always be subjective reasons for fighting for social causes, it is up or not .
The reality is that all these arguments make no sense, being heterosexual, homosexual or bisexual is exactly the same, sexology, psychology and biology to prove it. It's like discussing whether our skin color makes us more or less aggressive, more or less ill, more or less depraved.
Sexuality is an important part of life, but never defined, leaving someone we define a small part of what makes us who we are cowards.
Is Strong? Yes, we can not continue to allow this amount of labels, value judgments, we try to define and categorize. If something we know about human beings is that we are integral, formed by millions of situations that make us and act in a way impossible, say, to classify.
why this call at the exit of what is commonly known as the closet, opening our sexuality, our guidance for the normalization, we can not keep hoping that others do for us.
I am saddened by the thought of having to do this, I'm not going down the street and say "hello my orientation is xy z", but now is a time where standardization is vital to prevent this hate / fear unjustified.
humans have inalienable rights, where is specified that if you choose to share your life with x person these rights are lost? Legal equality is needed and that no religion is needed to mess with the law of equality.
But now it's time to get into catharsis, to release and accept our orientation to the world, to accept to love someone or want someone, whoever it is, is something that nobody else should matter.
course, the coming out is an emotional movement so intense that it is not easy, fear can paralyze us, fear of what people say, loss of friends or estrangement from family, afraid to disappoint people ... All these are reasons that should prompt us to do, who truly loves us not fail to do so, who is disappointed because I had false expectations, who is away need not only lots of information and sexual education but sometimes even therapy, etc.
need to understand that if someone rejects us because of our sexual orientation is a person who does wrong, not us, he or she needs therapy and education sexual, he who is afraid of us or hate us for who we need understanding, not vice versa, and in these cases people have to accept homosexuality but as something funny or romantic situation comedy (something that can be removed discretion), all they need our empathy because their bases usually come from ignorance, fear and need to educate them, how?, normalizing, out of the closet, saying I'm like xy, so am I, and was born and I'm so happy.
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